Showing posts with label personal hygiene. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal hygiene. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Not bounded by the unspoken code not to air private laundry, which is exactly how psychopath Ya-Chang Robert Lin gets away with lying and other shameful acts


A reader forwarded an article my friend’s son wrote about the 10 reasons why he would never voluntarily want to be in physical proximity to and in communication with The Jerk Ya-Chang Robert Lin. Three reasons are listed below; the remainder must wait until after Phandeluys’ hearing.

When we were still living together in the same house or if there arise an occasion in which I have to mix my clothes with his, I am careful to always launder our clothes separately. On too many occasions, I have seen how his white Hanes briefs were stained with fecal matter that had been wiped only but never rinsed or handwashed with a detergent and bleach solution and dried before being placed into the laundry basket. I understand that we all suffer from diarrhea and stomach upsets at one time or another, but leaving fecal matter to dry and cake on your clothes before throwing them into the washing machine with towels and beddings is shockingly unsanitary. If you can't make an effort to clean the soiled undergarments, throwing them away (not the same as recycling—that is one vector for disease to spread) is an option. I always shudder thinking about the bacteria from soiled undergarments transferring onto our face cloths and body towels that are used on our very absorbent skin. Did you know that fecal matter can carry germs such as hepatitis A, norovirus, rotavirus, Salmonella, and E. coli?

Sick! My mother explained it to me and I looked it up.

Fecal cross-contamination is the reason why my mother insisted that each of us has our own laundry hampers to store our dirty clothes. More importantly, she always uses hot water and chlorine bleach with our whites, or Clorox 2 with intimates and colored clothing. And afterwards, she cleans and taught me to clean the washing machine by running the machine with bleach and water without any clothing in it, and wiping it down with a bleach or vinegar solution. Of course, we always had to do it behind The Jerk's back or in his absence because he would complain about the wasted bleach, hot water and electricity.

Where do most teens get their information about dating and sex? Not from parents, based on my informal survey among my friends. I am not anywhere near that category: my mother and I have discussed when it’s okay for me to have sex; about STDs and how to prevent them; where to get condoms; how to use protection; and how to see a doctor, whether or not I wanted her to know that I am going.

On the other hand, I don’t seek out advices about dating and sex-related issues from The Jerk. And the real reason is, would you be comfortable talking to an adult who proudly tells you that during his time serving the armed forces in his country of Taiwan, he had never once visited the state-provided prostitutes (a group of women who were paid by his government to enter these training camps to provide sexual intercourse for the soldiers in a ratio of one woman to every 10 men) but would seek out a nearby dog or pig for sexual release? His reasoning? Because it was "safer and cleaner" that way. My mother had been present when The Jerk said this. I will always remember the way she looked at him as if he were the most perfect example of the vilest parasite on earth. God would have been merciful if he had cracked the ground underneath The Jerk and swallowed him whole. Of course, The Jerk attempted to turn the situation around by saying that he was joking and trying to shock us. This is a tactic he frequently uses to cover any embarrassment he may have inadvertently caused himself, either by revealing detail that betrayed his claim of who he is or making obvious social faux pas.

Having witnessed The Jerk watching videos of bestiality while pleasuring himself on a few occasions, I don't doubt that what he said is the truth; thinking about and recalling it makes me nauseous.

Credibility is another reason why I don't discuss my personal life with The Jerk. Would you ask this creature of no judgment how to woo and court a girl or a woman? Probably if all you want is a one-night encounter or several one-night stand and are too cheap—or think you are all that—to paid for a prostitute. And maybe if you are living a self-deluded life and would like to pull other people into your fantasy land with a rude awakening call at the end, if they are lucky. 

You would have to have a few loose screws somewhere in that grey mass of yours if you listen to and take into consideration any advice—excepting lying, manipulating, cheating, stealing, whoring—from a creature who lied, manipulated, and cheated his way into a marriage. 

Deception and fraud are not how I want my significant relationships to begin. But who knows what the genetic influences are—that psychotic blood and mental condition (what would you call the compulsive and habitual need to lie, manipulate, cheat, and steal that are exhibited from The Jerk himself to his father, mother, and brother) from the Chang-Lin clan in China and Taiwan. Best way to counter whatever genetic predetermination I might have inherited from that family is with physical distance, self-awareness and a strong dose of correct nurturance and right environment.

Stay tune, and until next post, 

We dream | We believe | And we will succeed 

About this blog 

Excepting this introduction and what are—and will be—posted after March 2015, this blog mirrored a now out-of-commission blog, http://ya-chang-lin.blogspot.com, which was taken down on October 21, 2013 by its author Phandeluys Truong. 

The author's original contents and supporting documents were captured by multiple means from the above-mentioned blog while it was alive and active. There may have been a glitch here and there that prevented me from downloading the complete blog as it had existed. Thus, readers familiar with the original blog may find a few missing posts and/or comments. Those postings that I was able to grab and preserve in their entirety are reposted here under my name, however, all rights remain that of the original author. 

This series of posts documents the fraudulent, sometimes criminal, and frequent unethical/immoral activities of Ya-Chang Robert Lin, a Taiwanese native of mainland Chinese parentage, who defrauded a naturalized US citizen, Phandeluys Truong, into a marriage that had been his shield against USCIS for his intentional violations of immigration law: 

as a nonimmigrant F-1 student, he had willfully operated an international students recruiting business without prior work authorization from the then United States Immigration and Naturalization Service; 

as President of said business, he had knowingly helped both mainland Chinese and Taiwanese students to evade military drafts in their countries by facilitating their applications to study in the US and abroad; 

as President of said business, he had knowingly helped both mainland Chinese and Taiwanese students looking to enter the United States with the intention of gaining permanent US resident status under the pretense of studying; 

as President of said business, he had purposely evaded paying taxes on the commissions received from it and failed to report the earned income to the IRS by having the payments wired back to Taiwan to his mother Chang Hsueh; 

he had applied for reinstatement of his F-1 or student status and a change of status, while knowingly withheld the preceding facts on his own applications for permanent resident and citizenship in the United States. 

And those are just the tip of the iceberg. Ya-Chang Robert Lin had been employed at AAFES or The Exchange headquarter in Dallas, Texas as an information technology auditor, where he managed to steal—by downloading to CDs that he kept in his personal possession while abiding for time and opportunities to "do business" in Taiwan and/or China—thousands of his colleagues’ Social Security numbers and personnel files while working on one of its HR projects. The HR data on one of these projects became the basis for an academic paper, speaking proposal for ISACA, and a consulting business he was "collaborating with " [more like conning other people into developing and fronting for him]. 

Ya-Chang Robert Lin is a reprobate with a seared conscience. Lacking normal capacity for empathy, remorse, and reciprocation of good will, he is addicted to lying, cheating, and stealing for the pure pleasures derived from being able to get away with it. Because he is such a good liar—so charming and well versed in manipulation techniques and acting skills—it is hard to distinguish him from reprobates. 

Ya-Chang Robert Lin was able to dupe some of the smart people in federal government, higher education, and information technology auditing and security. Among his legacy: A son who refused any connection with him and wished that he were dead.

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Lies, lies, and more lies—let's expose them, one by one


Here at the Starbucks frequented by Phandeluys to find her accompanied by her “significant other” and partner in ballroom dancing and teaching. 

Her companion is tall, polite, confident, straight talking, strong, young—at least 10-15 years her junior. They draw many furtive glances their way, perhaps due to their age difference, though my friend does not resemble a woman in her forties, except for that tinge of grey in her hair … 

I do not see what is the big deal with a mature woman taking a dip in a junior demographic; we men do it all the time, so why exclude women from the fun? Aside from the physicality, what matters are dependability, trustworthiness, and giving your heart completely, even if it is a spring fling. And I am not insinuating theirs is. 

He is tenderly and somewhat possessive toward her—it is not enough that they are holding hands, but he keeps trying to wrap his arm around her as they work on their GitHub projects. Possessive, definitely—a characteristic of many South Koreans I have seen but not overly dominating. I think my friend would not tolerate the latter very well, given her personality and inherent dislike of all those “negative emotions” and “clinginess” in relationships. … 

Well, that did not make my day, but it is her show and her song, so let him sing harmony to her melody. 

As I had promised to write about some of those outright lies psychopath Ya-Chang Robert Lin had engaged in telling under oath and on the stand during the trial on or about July 2014, here goes one. 

Psychopath and habitual liar Ya-Chang Robert Lin claimed to not know the reason why his “marriage” failed apart other than perhaps his wife—my friend Phandeluys—might have been having an affair with another man, and that was why she had withheld sexual intimacy in their “marriage.” 

What psychopath Ya-Chang Robert Lin failed to mention was that his habitual uncleanliness—see that post here and the pictures here and here; there are also medical reports for diagnoses and treatments of his private part resulting from his lack of good hygiene but I will not post those on this blog [email me if you are that kind of readers and want copies]—that caused Phandeluys to refuse to be intimate with this psychopathic and lying pig in a semblance of a man. 

Straight out from my friend’s diary: Not to be unkind, but would you want to explore another person’s body if you are repulsed by his hygiene just to make him happy and to cultivate and keep the domestic tranquility you’ve always wanted? Not when the cost of sex—in terms of time, energy and missed work—is prohibitively high. And that is just supply and demand in action.

Most of the time, I am too tired and too angry—not in the mood—to jump into bed with a dirty and icky person who has a serial, almost childlike misrepresentations to avoid criticism or responsibility … I have tried to lovingly express my reservations about his lack of hygiene, only to be harshly rebuked or punished by his passive aggressive behavior. I am aware that marriage is work but it is too much for me to deal with my sexual needs, his habitual lack of personal hygiene, and his hurt ego when I broach the subject. … Unless you're in a comatose, it is plain common sense that good personal hygiene is a turn on for someone like me who showers at least once a day. If you want a happy and available partner, come to bed clean. Simple. … Some things are worth fighting a battle over. Sex with this person is not one of them. The costs far outweigh the benefits.

Supply and demand and cost-benefit analysis, indeed—not very complicated principles to grasp for a psychopath who claimed to have studied Economics.  

Stay tune, and until next post, 

We dream | We believe | And we will succeed 

About this blog 

Excepting this introduction and what are—and will be—posted after March 2015, this blog mirrored a now out-of-commission blog, http://ya-chang-lin.blogspot.com, which was taken down on October 21, 2013 by its author Phandeluys Truong. 

The author's original contents and supporting documents were captured by multiple means from the above-mentioned blog while it was alive and active. There may have been a glitch here and there that prevented me from downloading the complete blog as it had existed. Thus, readers familiar with the original blog may find a few missing posts and/or comments. Those postings that I was able to grab and preserve in their entirety are reposted here under my name, however, all rights remain that of the original author. 

This series of posts documents the fraudulent, sometimes criminal, and frequent unethical/immoral activities of Ya-Chang Robert Lin, a Taiwanese native of mainland Chinese parentage, who defrauded a naturalized US citizen, Phandeluys Truong, into a marriage that had been his shield against USCIS for his intentional violations of immigration law: 

as a nonimmigrant F-1 student, he had willfully operated an international students recruiting business without prior work authorization from the then United States Immigration and Naturalization Service; 

as President of said business, he had knowingly helped both mainland Chinese and Taiwanese students to evade military drafts in their countries by facilitating their applications to study in the US and abroad; 

as President of said business, he had knowingly helped both mainland Chinese and Taiwanese students looking to enter the United States with the intention of gaining permanent US resident status under the pretense of studying; 

as President of said business, he had purposely evaded paying taxes on the commissions received from it and failed to report the earned income to the IRS by having the payments wired back to Taiwan to his mother Chang Hsueh; 

he had applied for reinstatement of his F-1 or student status and a change of status, while knowingly withheld the preceding facts on his own applications for permanent resident and citizenship in the United States. 

And those are just the tip of the iceberg. Ya-Chang Robert Lin had been employed at AAFES or The Exchange headquarter in Dallas, Texas as an information technology auditor, where he managed to steal—by downloading to CDs that he kept in his personal possession while abiding for time and opportunities to "do business" in Taiwan and/or China—thousands of his colleagues’ Social Security numbers and personnel files while working on one of its HR projects. The HR data on one of these projects became the basis for an academic paper, speaking proposal for ISACA, and a consulting business he was "collaborating with " [more like conning other people into developing and fronting for him]. 

Ya-Chang Robert Lin is a reprobate with a seared conscience. Lacking normal capacity for empathy, remorse, and reciprocation of good will, he is addicted to lying, cheating, and stealing for the pure pleasures derived from being able to get away with it. Because he is such a good liar—so charming and well versed in manipulation techniques and acting skills—it is hard to distinguish him from reprobates. 

Ya-Chang Robert Lin was able to dupe some of the smart people in federal government, higher education, and information technology auditing and security. Among his legacy: A son who refused any connection with him and wished that he were dead.