My intention in creating and publishing this particular blog is based purely on the following SMS Conversation between my spouse and me. Its igniting spark was from the italicized sections below, from which the blog's title came.
Nov 08 10:44 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:If u insist that I write the whole amount for divorce filing fees from out the account, okay. I will do that on Friday so u can have the divorce citation by next week. Divorce, it is.
Nov 08 10:48 AM
12146367393:You want the divorce and you file the divorce. I do not want the divorce.
Nov 08 10:48 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:w/o me being there to defend myself w/ evidences against ur pretentious hurts, lies, snake-like charms, no wonder Stella will believe ur words. Am not looking for her or ur community's approvals; I want the justice & legal system to see the real u since 1992. {u} do not want the divorce yet u don't want to move forward either? how convenient to hold my and D's lives in limbo-land while u move about as single person. I nullified the divorce thru both email to the District Clerk & by visiting the court. And now this? Make up ur mind, as u're wasting my time & resources.
Nov 08 10:51 AM
12146367393:More investigation? That is what {i} got from you in our most 16 years. {s}teala is the one asked me. You guys are the ones been talking behind my back.
Nov 08 10:54 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Exactly what did u gave these last 16 years? I am who I am, unlike u w/ too many hidden things. Who live a marriage like that? Yes, I notified Stella I am considering divorce & therefore will not be back to classes. I did told her once that I will be there with her in her ballroom dance journey until she achieves her dream, & because of the divorce, I may have to renege on that, thus, my apologies to her. U have a problem w/ that?
Nov 08 10:57 AM
12146367393:{c}ould be a lovely marriage, many people were envy about us. You just hard to please. Threaten me all the time. {e}verything is other people fault, you think you are perfect? Really?
Nov 08 10:59 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:{p}erhaps ur kind of marriage; not mine. Perception is vastly different from reality of living inside something. Who cares about other people being envious? {t}hat's not my standard to judge things by.
Nov 08 10:59 AM
12146367393:A good mother{. .}probably. {a} good wife? Haha{.} You always want to monopo{ly} D, for sure now he is mostly strange to me. Good fucking job.
Nov 08 11:01 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Never claimed to be perfect; perfection's not even a moralistic goal. Am pragmatic, not stupid. I wanted a lifetime partnership, not a husband to provide & serve. U should have listened & read my long letter to u at the beginning of this relationship. Good luck rehashing everything in the past 16 years. Life move{s} forward. As of this date and hour, divorce is what we both agreed on, correct? Or u're going to change ur mind & accuse me of not wanting to move forward as a unit?
Nov 08 11:09 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Hello? Either commit to one or the other. By the way, requesting that u commit to a timeline of when to deliver a document, an article, a project, et cetera is not threatening; it's how life is managed. If u cannot follow thru w/ ur own promise, u will have no one to blame when u find the people around u refuse to work w/ and /or to put their trust in u.
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