Thursday, February 21, 2013

Things I stumbled across | The bathroom

Not the first time I'd stumbled across documents belonging to other people who worked with and / or are known to my ex.  Others have included time sheets of a Walker Group in-house consultant by the name of Bing Shen that were printed out from a computer, way back in 1999 when my voidable spouse began working in AAFES or The Exchange; and a more recent pay stub of a colleague, Kerry Bogard, whose Asian American Legal Defense and Education Fund letter is shown below.  These and others like them are part of a file of original documents I no longer possess.

The same Bing Shen whose time sheets at AAFES / The Exchange were illegally accessed and printed out by my voidable spouse?  Interesting ...































White spaces | The bathroom

Sure, I am extremely busy preparing myself and my son for our new life, which includes finding equilibrium in a volatile environment, [re] building structures that can support growth throughout the year, and cleansing myself of past experiences ... starting with my surroundings, of course.
































The bathroom, pre-cleaning, courtesy of my ex.  I'm at a total lost on how a person can live and model this environment for an impressionable fourteen-year-old child.  As equally important, how does one cook and not suspect any dish coming from a kitchen that is located next to this disgustingness?































And all this time, I had thought my ex hesitated to clean up for lack of the right tools ... Found this breathing mask on the top shelf.