It's Happy V-Week!

Forget the ho-hum candlelight dinner.

Way more memorable:  Celebrate love with the one who sets your heart a-flutter by taking him [or her] on a night of erotic poetry reading for a soulfully and suggestively sexy energy leading to a hot-and-heavy make-out session ... 

But if you're a worker bee more than a social butterfly, and like me, you're still processing a breakup, call for a timeout and dive into some sinister fun—bowling with your ex's head on a pin ... [strike!] or training day out at the shooting range.  However you have at it, keep that vision in your head as you slip into a rose-petal bath or take a drive with spontaneity as your GPS for some blissfully comfortable silence ... Enjoy being in and savoring the moment; and trust that laughter [while purging out the toxicity] is the best medicine / healer of a broken heart in reviving an independent and spirited you.