It's not about the infidelity—I'm not assuming one way or another, and neither do I care if it turns out to be an act of cheating—that upsets me upon seeing this. It is about being accused of mismanaging family finances by a spouse who committed the equivalence of what he tried to impute to me, and using that excuse to justify his locking me out of the accounts we had shared. [I had to negotiate a Marital Renewal Contract that was agreed to by both parties and signed before a notarizer on May 29, 2008, part of which contract contained a clause that requires that my name be added as JTWROS to his checking and savings accounts, along with access to them.]
It's the deception and manipulation that upset me.
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