That's the question that's been running through my mind these past three months of discovering what precisely happened during these past 16 years and to whom exactly did I marry?
Nov 08 11:22 AM
12146367393:Would be a lie that don{'}t think about you smile, your pinch on my nipple (yes you only do my right side) and your creativities (not your writing yet, to{o} hard for me). {Y}et, my life has not been cared, or loved the way {I} craving the most. you threaten me , blame on me, investigate me.
Nov 08 11:27 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:For real? U're going to duck ur head like an ostrich{e} & pretend u didn't read a word I wrote in the hope that the issues will resolve themselves? When the bad memories outlive the good, it's time to call things off & move forward on ur own. I'd like to be sentimental & emotional like the Korean characters I see in Korean movies but fact is, I have to be practical for D's sake. His life & future depends on my not making a mistake & misstepping.
Nov 08 11:27 AM
12146367393:Be honest, all {i} want now is just eat on time and sleep on a quiet place. Trouble free away from anybody, especially you.
Nov 08 11:29 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Then divorce is a choice u should seriously consider.
Nov 08 11:42 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:I live & conduct my life very simply: I do what I must regardless of personal likes, wants, & desires, especially when it's for the present stability & future progress & prosperity of the family & the people I care about. I lay everything out on the table so what u see is what u get, & I expect the same. I also expect continuous improvement of myself, my skills, my learning, & those of the people I care enough about to associate w/. Perhaps that's not exciting but it makes for a very consistent & transparent foundation for trust, which is fundamental in all kinds of relationships, except the dishonest ones. Like I said, let me know ur decision & commitment to either one course of action or the other. I'd like for things to settle before the weekend. There are people, job offers, course of studies I have to commit to, word- & resource-wise, as am sure u have the same.
Nov 08 12:04 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:I need a definitive answer / reply from u. Silence is never an answer.
Nov 08 12:14 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:by the way, UNT of Dallas is seeking adjunct instructors in Business - Information Systems and Technology. It was just posted, & positions are available until filled. Good luck.
Nov 08 6:37 PM
12146367393:Tofu soup for D?
Nov 08 6:59 PM
12146367393:UNT position, you help me apply, I sign contract w you for 50% for ANY income i received from UNT, in addition to just that course.
Nov 09 11:53 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:My commitments? What would they be? I've asked & u've yet to respond. The same evasiveness w/ ur questions that u were supposedly to ask me but never had. Using credit card charges additional service fees; am fine with credit cards, too. It's u who's bitching about the costs & want to save on the legal fees as much as possible. Like I said, tried living inside a relationship first before getting all envious. Besides, what do I care about other people & their enviousness & jealousies? Such a waste of emotions & time.
Nov 09 12:03 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:U don't answer my questions directly; u don't have legitimate questions that u can ask of me; u want divorce but fear the fallouts; u want to keep rehashing the past in la-la land about what-ifs, what-shoulds? How about you should have read my letter about lifetime partnership; how about you should have told me to keep my career & delay having a family because financially you can't hack it; how about you should have told me there will not be private education for our only son because u & ur family don't think it's necessary & will not spend ur money on it? Let's drag the past up shall we & play the blame game ... divorce or move forward w/o rehashing the past, yes or no. U want to claim silence as ur alibi, then later on blame me [& excuse urself from having to make any decision] about this relationship & why ur life turns out the way it will be? Be my guest in playing the excusitis game. Ensure u can take it like a man & not some woman street vendor when facing the legal & justice systems, & ur community.
Nov 09 12:10 PM
12146367393:I should have in charge of budget and finance since you are good at others.
Nov 09 12:10 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:I need that answer to my question. U can play the limbo-game w/ someone else. What exactly does "in charge" entails? In details.
Nov 09 12:12 PM
12146367393:tell me how you going to treat me better and get along with my parents{ }?
Nov 09 12:13 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:That's ur part to detail since u've been accusing me of not understanding ur needs. Hello? I don't cover both my needs & requirements, and be expected to detail urs? How convenient [lazy, too] of u.
Nov 09 12:16 PM
12146367393:sleep on sofa, no food, no bedroom, no shower. that is your way of treating your husband.
Nov 09 12:18 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Oh, that's what u want? I thought that's what we're working on? Still rehashing what were, from ur own decision? No one prevents u from taking showers for five days straight; it's been like that w/ u for the past 16 years. {E}ven I have to ask that u change into a new underwear after taking shower, instead of turning the old one out & re-wearing it. Who does that?
Nov 09 12:21 PM
12146367393:have asked, if you want to file the divorce , you can pay for the whole fee. have asked you watch the spending, insufficient fund again.
Nov 09 12:22 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Who in the world peed into the sink that is used for brushing teeth & washing faces? Especially w/ a toilet right next to the sink? Okay. So we agreed on the divorce, correct. No {harp}ings back and forth, correct? {o}r discussion & hashing. I repeat: We are in agreement about the divorce, correct? There will not be any more discussions, rehashing of any issues, correct?
Nov 09 12:25 PM
12146367393:another $283 {C}ostco? No money left at all with $30 penalty{ }?Do {I} have to cancel Costco too?
Nov 09 12:26 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Yes, family living needs to be maintained. U can spend $300 {i}n Costco, & I can't? I did ask for a listing of all mandatory bills; did u produce or keep on delaying {in order to keep me in the dark?} Tried cancelling Costco & we'll see what happen.
Nov 09 12:27 PM
12146367393:you want the divorce , you file it.
Nov 09 12:28 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:That's not what I asked. Answer my question or are u too afraid of the fallouts? Are we in agreement about the divorce? Yes or no. Playing dead again, are u? The legal system will really crush u for wasting its time & resources.
Nov 09 12:36 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:The same question that was posed to u thru text messages via my email, my phone, & to ur emails at work, & at Yahoo! & u choose to ignore them all. Okay, continue playing dead; I'll inform my handler & the agencies.
Nov 09 12:52 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Trying to pin this whole breakup to my financial mismanagement will not work, either, not when the forensic accountants see how u manipulated ur multiple accounts from various banks, here in the States & abroad. Good luck w/ ur in-limbo games. And not just since 1999 w/ ur paycheck from AAFES but way back to 1992 when u shared an account w/ a Lisa Velez. We're still trying to track her down for a little chitchat.
Nov 09 12:56 PM
12146367393:negative balance, any charges includes just a burger will cost additional fee of $30 in debt.
Nov 09 12:58 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Looked at when I verified the account before buying D. his burger, SoB. If u have a payment in placed, u should have informed me. That's management. Oh, I forgot, u failed that course, didn't u?
Nov 09 1:06 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Oh, by the way, am scheduled to meet w/ the District attorney to discuss "our" situation. Would u want to tag along?
Nov 09 1:09 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Filing divorce to qualify for aid? Wow! U're fucking naive & delusional. What's the purpose of cleaning? So what's the purpose of divorcing? Only someone as perverted as u [& out of touch w/ reality] would think to use divorce in such a way.
Nov 09 1:11 PM
12146367393:you knew you have spent too much money at Costco and should watch out spending when below balance of $500. I did inform you our account is low. {Y}ou want to hurt our finance this way, at least do not spent into my half.
Phandeluys A. Truong:Look at when the check was written, dickhead. Also, where was my half of the interpretation fees that Anna paid u? And all this time, u're bitching about Stella's $300. So petty in the brains & {in} the heart. Is that typical of ur Taiwanese culture? U want to talk about halves? Shall we revisit international students recruitment, COSUSA, & several other fees u denied me while we were supposed to be in them {partnering in the businesses} together?
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Nov 09 1:36 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:A liar & a thief should have never been placed in the Audit Directory of a semi-government institution.
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Nov 09 7:25 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Also, please stop bullshitting D w/ ur self-deluded tales about getting any white woman out there; we both know [& D suspected as much] that no decent & self-respecting woman will ever want to be w/ u if she sees, knows the real u, or unless she was tricked. This grand delusion of urs does D's sense of self-esteem no good, so cut the bullshits. Just because some woman is willing to exchange sex for ur dancing lead does not equal to u being all that desirable. Do learn how to read a woman, & not from ur parents, who hid the facts of life from u until u were in college; nor from ur first girlfriend, who duped u into thinking she was a virgin & u were her first lover. Don't pass ur unsophistication on to D, please, or u'll wreck his {future} romantic life.
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