Dec 28 4:25 PM
12146367393:Text me the time window front door will be opened. I have your check made.
Dec 28 4:27 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Why? So you can come back here to threaten D and me again? No, thanks. We like our peace and quiet here just fine.
Dec 28 4:59 PM
12146367393:So, when and how can I get back to my house and my bed?
Dec 28 5:08 PM
12146367393:locksmith every{time}?
Dec 28 5:16 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:When can you commit to not threatening—physically, verbally, financially, psychologically—D and me? When can you purchase a new unopened bolt for the front door lock that you damaged—I will replace it myself. We thought you like staying out there with your cohorts—we like the fact of you liking to stay out there, too—it made for a real quiet home-life. About your bed—it's the sofa or your parents' room. With your year-end bonus and multiple gigs, surely, locksmith is an expense you can afford—just like International Priority shipping of $100 for an $85 gift e-book to Annie Chin. [And you don't even want to spend that much on your own parents; I guess she must be "unique" and "relevant" {useful} to your next stage in life.]
Dec 28 5:20 PM
12146367393:I just don't like pay two locations ... actually can not afford. You are the one make all the threats.
Dec 28 5:26 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:No threats. I just recently—within the last three months—discovered {what} this marriage is all about and who / what the hell am married to, and I'll be damned if I don't share with the whole world out there. I want to shout-out every time I stumbled into something previously hidden—and not for the better—from me about you and yours.
Dec 28 5:30 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:I had always emphasized self-honesty and honesty with others in relationships. I don't mind that a person I know is a cheater, just don't pretend to be an honest and moralistic person otherwise. I sure can take a cheater any day over a hypocrite and a user. And that is what you and yours have been with me during the last 16 years.
Dec 28 6:22 PM
12146367393:Just because you found small piece of puzzle, doesn't mean you know the whole picture. Just because I {am} silent about your claims, doesn't mean I agree with you nor you are right either. You don't trust is simply who you are and how your family see marriage. This marriage you want me to take the fault, I am saving my breath.
Dec 28 6:26 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Yup, just let the documents and evidences, in conjunction with the timeline, tell their pieces of the story. That's all anyone can ask.
Dec 28 6:29 PM
12146367393:Since you have so much time, probably you can also show what kind of wife you have been.
Dec 28 6:41 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Am on the Internet for purposes of job skills enhancement and job search. Do you think I like being stuck in this hell-hole you and your parents called a "home"—more like a big empty shell-of-a-house for "storing" your money than a real home with emotional, psychological, financial comforts, safety, security, and enjoyment. You think D and I like your always-hovering {verbal} harassment {of calling us} "freeloaders" and threats of financial strangleholds? Get real! If it wasn't for me in writing your essays for AAFES HR questionnaire [via fax], am not so sure you would have gotten this current job that you have, nor the promotions that followed. [Oh, and yes, I do have proofs of those—of what I just wrote.] Same thing with Stella, with whom you fucked up with your blatant insults because you thought you had landed the ultimate in clientele—Lina {whom you claimed—and I have your words on audio—will willingly trade in both her husband and her top-of-the-line automobile—a Mercedes, or a Bentley, or a BMW—if you would take her on as your ballroom partner and competitive trainee}. Am the one who got Stella to come back to our group class and the private sessions {I have both your texted message asking for my help in getting Stella back, along with the heartfelt letter I penned to Stella} only to have you steal my half of the fees. History repeats itself, huh, just like with the language schools.
Dec 28 6:43 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Like I said, the kind of wife any [hygienic] male man enough to want, can afford to keep, and confident enough to partner with.
Dec 28 6:50 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:It's not because I cannot be a "playgirl"—it's because you'd already casted me in the role of a mother and a helpmeet for these last 14-16 years. And now, when it's no longer convenient for you to play the "family man" and you want your freedom and your version of the "American Dream," am expected to drop my responsibility as a mother and business professional to accommodate you? Go find your bimbo some place else.
Dec 28 6:53 PM
12146367393:Stay in the 2500 sq ft new house in {F}lower {M}ound with all bills paid and kick the owner out to the street. And you still are complaining? Yup, that is you.
Dec 28 6:54 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Am not raising another irresponsible hypocrite and {shameless} manipulative user like your parents did with you.
Dec 28 6:55 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Yes, I will kick you and whoever out if you and whoever threaten the emotional, psychological, and developmental safety of my child.
Dec 28 6:58 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Am a citizen of the world first, then a mother, and I take both of those roles very seriously, so don't fuck with my values and {with} my child.
Dec 28 6:58 PM
12146367393:Sub zero temperature again, obviously you don't care how I am. Yup, that is you.
Dec 28 7:02 PM
12146367393:Every dollar I wasted outside of house could spent at D future, however, its cold and I am hungry. After all, you caused it.
Dec 28 7:03 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:I should care about you when you threaten us? Are you kidding me? You should {be} happy I didn't hand over the video of you sabotaging the front door lock of the house to the authorities, along with your threat to leave both D and me in the freezing cold—it took me almost 40 minutes to calm D down with logical thinking and worst-case scenarios {explications}. Great father and husband you are.
Dec 28 7:07 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Go find your bimbo and the single lifestyle you thought you wanted. Without D and me, am sure you avail yourself of all kinds of sensory pleasures out there; are you so quick to be satiated or you're fearing the possible fallout to yourself and yours? If you can act, you can abide by the consequences.
Dec 28 7:15 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Every dollar ... goes to D and his future. Hm, is that why you took away his $60 every month allowance that I wrote into the contract that you had agreed to and signed—because it went into D's future spending? Even D's savings account is seeded by my mother's money. Then and after several more pleadings from me did you begin depositing $75 from your paycheck. So, what was it that you were saying about every dollar saved for D ... ?
Dec 28 7:25 PM
12146367393:The authority already said you have no right to change the lock. and I can call the locksmith or take down the door if I want to.
Dec 28 7:28 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Do so if and when you feel the need. D also has the right to feel secure, safe, and happy in his domicile—that is one thing I will enforce at all cost.
Dec 28 7:31 PM
12146367393:D said you are the one direct him to said things he didn't mean to. And, he loves me.
Dec 28 7:33 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:Verify with D again. He's much smarter, more perceptive and intuitive than what you're crediting him with. Over these past three months, he's seen too many things about you and yours to be blindsided by your emotional manipulations and sentimental appeals.
Dec 28 7:38 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:And no, I did not purposely show things to D to badmouth you and yours. D has a way of finding out about things when he sees me so upset and depressed, sometimes all at once.
Dec 28 8:06 PM
12146367393:No conversation, just sleep and access to my area, can I get in the house tonight to sleep or not?
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