Friday, January 18, 2013

Kidnapping—for real?

Jan 18 11:19 AM
12146367393:Your{'}s and D{'} future{s} are also my future. If you could use your Energy to work as a team instead of being so destructive, we could achieve much more.

Jan 18 2:51 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:That's exactly what I have been working on during the last 16 years, without credits, savings, professional standings to my name while you negated everything I'd tried to accomplish and cheated behind my back. No more. I don't know who you are and I don't care to be with you. You can have your freedom and your American Dream when you give me back my 16 years of equity in love, faith, sweat, professional {credentials} and business strategies.

Jan 18 9:25 PM
12146367393:D is not responding. As long as he is a minor and I am supporting, I want time with him regardless you or him think {it} is necessary or like it or not. Please make arrangement.

Jan 18 10:19 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:D is not responding to what? Am I supposed to {role}play secretary / scheduler / coordinator between you two? Whether D wants to spend his free / leisure hours with you or not, that's his choice, which is based on your lack of follow-through and inconsistencies as related to your past promises of scheduled time / activities with him—firstly, there was swimming at Lifetime, and secondly, golfing—{neither} of which you kept up with. Furthermore, you're not interested in his fierce devotion to gaming, and D could care less about your ballroom dancing activities. I did ask D whether he would like / want to spend time with you, perhaps doing something you both can compromise on. He'd said No; the reasons he gave being that you're not really interested in his life; you don't listened and heard what he tells you because you're constantly distracted by your phone or whatever else is on your mind; you give him advices that may get him into more trouble and / or {are} not applicable to the reality he faces at school and in his social circle; and you badmouth me behind {my back and} in my absence and when he tried to explain or to present his take of whatever situation, you shut / drown him out with loud and intimidating words [so he's not comfortable being with you without me].

Jan 18 10:27 PM
Phandeluys A. Truong:While D may look physically big, he's only 14 and undergoing a metamorphosis on his way through adolescence; stability and nurturing consistency [among others] are what he needs so try to lessen / minimize the confusion in his life, if you can [and care enough].

Jan 18 11:47 PM
12146367393:I am asking you to hand him over, not how you feel. You can{ }not kidnap him.

Jan 19 1:39 AM
Phandeluys A. Truong:D is not an object to be handed over to you or to anyone else. D has a say in how and with whom he wants to spend his time off from school, extra-curricular activities, and chores. I consult with D and factor in / incorporate his needs, wants, and desires into our decisions. Be careful with your verbosity and embellishments in what you accuse me of: do some legal research into kidnapping statute before mouthing off [or penning your accusation] or you'll find yourself in a suit of defamation. Get yourself representation if you want {to} start a legal battle with me.


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